As much as I adore traveling with my kids, I’ll be the first to admit—it’s not exactly restful. From packing endless snacks to managing nap schedules in new time zones, family trips often leave me feeling like I need a vacation from the vacation. That’s why my recent stay at the Grand Velas Los Cabos, a luxury all-inclusive resort in Mexico, was such a revelation. For the first time in a long time, my husband and I took a trip without the kids, and it reminded me just how important it is for parents to carve out space for themselves too.
If you’ve been on the fence about taking a child-free vacation, here’s why I think it’s worth every bit of planning.
Let Someone Else Do the Cooking
If you’ve ever stayed at an all-inclusive resort, you already know the magic of never having to ask, “What’s for dinner?” But Grand Velas takes this concept to a whole new level. With seven incredible restaurants, the variety alone was worth the trip.
The standout for me was Cocina de Autor, a Michelin two-star restaurant offering an eight-course tasting menu with perfectly paired wines. Honestly, it was one of the best meals of my life. Another favorite was Velas 10, the resort’s seafood and steakhouse, where every dish was as beautifully presented as it was delicious.
The ease didn’t stop there—24-hour room service meant late-night cravings were instantly solved, and even the minibar was stocked daily with drinks and snacks, all included. The best part? No taxis, no reservations across town, no Googling restaurants on the fly. Everything was right there, ready when we were.
Rediscover the Joy of Sleep
At home, my nights are often punctuated by the sound of a toddler who still hasn’t quite mastered uninterrupted sleep. So the idea of a solid, blissful eight hours felt like a dream in itself. The suites at Grand Velas made it even better—spacious, beautifully designed, and outfitted with a king bed so comfortable I almost forgot where I was.
It didn’t feel like a hotel room at all. Instead, it felt like a second home—only one where someone else makes the bed, replenishes your snacks, and ensures you wake up to ocean views. That kind of rest alone made the trip worth it.
Peace and Quiet, Even by the Pool
One of the things that impressed me most was how serene the resort felt, even when it was at capacity. We never had trouble finding a seat by the pool, and while there were families with children around, it never felt hectic or overwhelming. Instead, the atmosphere was calm, indulgent, and just what my husband and I needed to recharge.
Being able to sip a cocktail, listen to the sound of the waves, and actually finish a conversation without interruptions was such a rare luxury. It reminded me that rest isn’t just about sleep—it’s about reclaiming those small, quiet moments we don’t often get at home.
Why Parents Need This
Traveling with kids will always hold a special place in my heart. I love watching my daughters experience new places and cultures, and I wouldn’t trade those memories for anything. But there’s something powerful about stepping away for a few days and reconnecting as partners instead of just parents.
Child-free vacations aren’t about escaping your kids—they’re about remembering who you are outside of the daily routines. They’re about rest, laughter, good food, and uninterrupted time together. And when you come home? You feel recharged, more patient, and ready to dive back into family life with fresh energy.
Final Thoughts
Our stay at Grand Velas Los Cabos was one of the best vacations we’ve had in years, and it reminded me of a truth I think every parent needs to hear: it’s okay to take time for yourself. It’s not selfish—it’s restorative. Whether it’s a weekend getaway or a longer trip, making space for rest and reconnection can be one of the best gifts you give to your whole family.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign to book that child-free vacation—consider this it.
